As our nineteenth wedding anniversary came and went this past summer I couldn’t help but reflect on the weddings that took place before me in our families. Each wedding was special, in a totally different time and space, and how each are also similar. I have a wall in our bedroom where I frame and hang ancestral wedding photos of both our families.
These bright and smiling couples looking toward the camera had no idea that one day I would be looking back!
Do you ever think about your own particular wedding or monumental photos? Do you wonder if you will end up on a families members wall or the an Apple cloud some day? Sounds strange, I know. Push time down the line some generations and I can only hope someone cares enough to keep my husband and I in their cloud space.
My hobby and love of genealogy beckons me to the past. However, their wedding pictures make me keenly aware of the present. They serve as a reminder to live in ‘The Today.’ Before long our wedding photo will be just a photograph to someone, smiling toward the camera, and hopefully bringing future generations some awareness too.
These ancestral wedding pictures are of happy and sweet days and I can’t think of a better way to remember them by.
I have these pictures up around my vanity. They are intermixed with day to day living and décor pieces. Some frames are still empty as I wait to add (or discover) more. One frame in particular my youngest daughter wants for her wedding! She isn’t any where close to a wedding ( ha!). Life moves quickly and I am in love with the fact that they remind me of such.
Nineteen years after my own wedding I am thankful for their example and devotion that now encourages me. The smiles don’t hurt either.
Do you display your ancestral wedding photos too? Typically I see ancestral wedding photo’s being a huge hit at weddings as part of the reception décor. Click here for an example of those display ideas! Looking at my wall a few years down the line I am wanting to go with a more classical look and less shabby chic, however, the wedding pictures will stay.
Without realizing it social media has turned all of us into Genealogists. Check out this post to find out how!
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